We all know †ђά̲̣̥† †ђξ society is becoming less friendly to children. Pedophiles have become more rampant. Even some parents d☺n’t know where to draw †ђξ line as they also abuse their own little ones. Helpers(drivers,househelps, teachers, and more), schools and relatives play games you remain unaware of with them and while they try to inform you, you are too busy to listen, talk to them or even find out what has been going out in their little lives. You may be disturbingly surprised.
Many parents cannot for †ђξ life of them talk to their little ones about Sex Education, forgetting †ђά̲̣̥† if you dont, †ђξ society would do it for you and none too pleasantly if I might add.
Just a few admonitions to help you on your way.
Warn your Daughter/Son never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles and fathers after a certain Age. Unfortunately, some men cannot control their urges and even at †ђξ softest touch, become aroused not considering †ђά̲̣̥† †ђξ child isn’t meant for †ђά̲̣̥†. Others have problems in †ђξ regular lives and cannot approach †ђξ opposite sex and so ‘Your Child’ is †ђξ nearest and most available victim around to quench their hunger.
I maintain †ђά̲̣̥† a child should begin to learn about Sex Education †ђξ moment they can speak, first about †ђξ parts of their body.
Try to avoid getting dressed in front of your child once especially of †ђξ opposite sex, for some children it affects them negatively while some become un-fazed and so †ђξ urge to be abusers themselves is removed. Find out which works for you or learn to excuse yourself.
-If you have to hire a helper, maid or nanny, please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status,
properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well. Some of these people may treat your child or ward †ђξ same way you treat them just so you know it is transferred aggression and you are to blame entirey for this. Remember they spend more time with your little ones.
-Never allow any adult refer to your new born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’ caressing them too. You may be not know †ђά̲̣̥† †ђξ signs †ђά̲̣̥† a child is being abused are always shown to †ђξ parents but they wave it off as just a ‘friendly adult’
Or later on be faced with “its the devil’s fault” statement.
-Avoid unnecessary play even with your husband(mostly men who abuse their children). Wife make sure you take care of your husband in †ђξ bedroom area lest you lead him into temptation.
-Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves.
-Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. †ђξ friendly adult may have begun designs on your little one. Some begin with offering little treats to encourage them to visit and come alone. Be careful keep your eyes on your child. Never be too busy to enquire ♓☺w their little lives went.
-Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you need to be patient, ask questions from your child and be gentle about it. D☺n’t hit your child because they are not forthcoming. †ђξ abuser usually makes them scared by telling them someone would loose their life or worse they themselves. They believe it because they are most times brain washed.
-If you don’t teach your children about sex, the society will teach them the wrong values and you just might bring up an abuser yourself.
-It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. Many cartoons now have pornography in them, while some have a l☺t of violence. Sometimes try to sit and watch with them, playing with your children can be very revealing.
-Teach your 2year olds how to wash their private parts and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas. Gradually learn to withdraw your touching them in these regions once they understand †ђξ process and clean up well(remember, charity begins at home and with you)DO IT YOURSELF.
-What you say or do in front of your child is very important. Children are like sponges, they absorb and soak in all you and people around them say. Very essential you expose them to †ђξ ‘right movies, music and play letting them know why †ђξ other is wrong.
-Once your child complains about a particular person,don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them always! Be careful in this regard, some children can be very precarious and like to cause a ruckus. Learn to know †ђξ difference.
Let them know they can trust you it is important or they would look for someone who they feel they can trust and it just might lead to abuse.
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